Modern impact monitoring systems combine multiple inputs with machine learning (ML) models for impact detection, localization, and event assessment. Their accuracy relies on large, event-representative datasets, used for algorithmic development and ML model training. High-fidelity numerical models can provide augmented datasets by overcoming the cost and time limitations of experimental methods. This research presents an end-to-end numerical methodology for impact detection based on simulation (training) and experimental (testing) data. Initially, a finite element model (FEM) of our experimental setup utilizing piezoelectric transducer (PZT) sensors mounted on a thermoplastic plate is created. From the experimental impact signals, a few consistent cases are identified for feature extraction. A design of experiments explores the range of each parameter, and through surrogate optimization, the material and piezoelectric properties of the setup are determined. Subsequently, a virtual dataset, involving multiple impact cases, is created to train the ML models performing impact detection. Testing with experimental data shows results consistent with literature studies that used only experimental data for both training and testing. This work provides a systematic methodology for representative dataset generation and impact monitoring through ML, while addressing accurate FEM parameter identification from a few experimental tries.