We quantify the stability of the formation of multipolar states against always present interchain couplings in quasi-one-dimensional spin-12 chain systems with a frustrating in-chain J1-J2 exchange, including parameter regimes that are of direct relevance to many edge-shared cuprate spin-chain compounds. Three representative types of antiferromagnetic interchain coupling and the presence of uniaxial exchange anisotropy are considered. The magnetic phase diagrams are determined by density matrix renormalization group calculations and completed by very accurate analytic and numerical results for the nematic and the dipolar phases employing the hard-core-boson approach. We establish that a sizable interchain coupling has a strong influence on the possible instability of multipolar phases at high magnetic fields in the vicinity of the saturation fields in favor of the usual dipolar one-magnon phase. Moreover, skew interchain couplings strongly affect the pitch of spiral states. Our theoretical results bring to the fore candidate materials close to quantum nematic/triatic ordering.